Neurosurgery and Opthalmology Updates

We've had two doctor appointments that I'd like to share.  The first is that both kids had their annual appointments with Dr. Myseros, their Neurosurgeon last week.  Although they were not very well behaved in the appointment, it was good to catch up with him.  He said both kids are looking good and he'd like to see us again in a year.  Before the next appointment he'd like us to do another brain scan for Cole to verify how his shunt is functioning.  A few months ago we had a scare where Cole was complaining of intermittent head aches and even threw up once.  I know someone whose son recently died from a malfunction, a friend who's daughter had to have surgery last week because of a malfunction and I had a meeting yesterday with a colleague who is waiting for an evaluation next week and expects to have her entire shunt replaced.  The fact that this can and WILL happen is very real and always in the back of our minds.  My friend recommended we start talking with him about his shunt and what it is so when we do have complications it's a little less scary.  Luckily we have a great book called Me and My Shunt that we plan to start reading to both kids to teach them about Cole's shunt.

I had numerous phone calls with the new nurse practitioner, Devon, about the headaches and whether we needed to bring Cole in for test to determine if he was having a malfunction.  She was great about following up with me and asking lots of questions. Given the head aches onset quickly and then stopped we decided to wait and just track the frequency and duration.  There is a test called a shunt series that will determine if a shunt is malfunctioning, but they were worried if he wasn't having symptoms that the test wouldn't catch the problem.  When we walked in to the appointment and I saw Devon I immediately realized I knew her.  I looked at her and said, "Children's Hospital, 2009, Neuro Floor, yes?"  She looked at me dumbfounded and said, "I did work there then, why".  I told her that she was Reagan's nurse for several days both before and after her brain surgery.  I told her how much we appreciated everything she did for us then.  She felt terrible because she didn't recognize us, but as we were leaving she apparently looked up Reagan's chart and did find her notes from several days during Reagan's stay.  She seemed very happy to hear we remembered her.  Small world!

We also had a follow up appointment this week for Cole with Dr. Jeffries, his opthalmologist.  We go every six months with dilation every year.  It was another frustrating appointment and yet another good learning experience.  I prepared Cole for what to expect, but they insisted on doing the vision test starting from the furthest point (sitting in the chair) to see how well he could read the pictures on the monitor on the far wall.  Unfortunately because it's so hard for him to see he gets very frustrated very quickly.  After some coercion we moved him more than half way to the monitor and were able to start getting him to focus on the task and complete the exam.  There was a second exam/machine that required him to put his chin on a shelf, his forehead against a bar and look into a small hole at a picture.  Unfortunately we were not able to get him to complete this test and will try again at our next appointment.  Hopefully I will be able to convince them to start closer to the monitor next time to prevent the frustration and meltdown.

Although I often hear 20/20 vision and know that means you have "perfect vision" I never researched what it means if you don't have perfect vision.  Obviously I have 20/20 vision or I would probably know this.  So a quick search on the measurements reveals the following information.  If you have 20/60 vision it means you can see at 20' what most people can see at 60'.  So you have to be closer than most people to see the same image.  You are considered legally blind when you have 20/200 vision.  Unfortunately Cole has 10/200 vision, which means that he sees at 10' what what most people can see at 200'.

As his mom, I worry about how he's going to get to work if he can't drive.  Where he's going to have to live to have access to a bus or a metro.  I worry about how he will take a girl on a date.  I worry about how he will take his kids to Tae Kwon Do practice.  But I try to remind myself how lucky we are that he is here.  I try to remind myself how luck we are that he has any sight. And although I know we have so much to be thankful for, it's still so very difficult to feel like your child will have so many more challenges than most kids.  But we take it one day at a time, we advocate as best we can, and we try to realize how far he has come.  And it is so apparent in this side by side picture!  It was recommended that our next step is to see a low vision specialist to start learning what tools and resources are available to people with visual disabilities.  I called and made an appointment with Dr. Alibhai at Low Vision Services in May and look forward to making new connections.  I will post another update next week after meeting with the Neurologist!

Easter and the Tooth Fairy

It feels like a long time since I've posted an update and I have several to share!

The first was a really nice Easter spent with family.  The kids were pretty excited that the Easter bunny left them baskets and we had a lot of fun doing three different egg hunts this year to include one with Emma and Luke Golino at the Algonkian Golf Club.  We had a lot of fun dying eggs and picking funny face stickers for each one.

Another big update is that on April 9th, at age 5, Reagan lost her first tooth!  She was super excited when it started getting loose about two weeks ago.  She was in Tae Kwon Do class when it shifted and was sticking straight out.  Daddy pulled it quickly and she went to the bathroom to clear the blood.  She was pretty excited to see that the Tooth Fairy brought her a $2 bill!  Many of her friends at school had already lost teeth so she was very excited to be part of the "club".

I've promised to start including funny quotes from the kids.  Cole had a funny one this week.  He unfortunately wet his pants.  I asked why he had an accident and he said, "Mom, it's not my fault, I didn't do it.  My penis did it!"

Spring Break 2015!

We decided to join the rest of the married with children families this year on the annual Spring Break Trip 2015!  We had a great time but I think the big lesson learned is that weather is not predictable in Va/Md in March.

We decided to go to Cambridge, MD for a few days to get away and have some good quality family time.  We stayed at the Hyatt Regency Chesapeake Bay and although the weather was a little rainy and cool, we had a great time!

We had a great fun playing putt putt, walking on the beach, searching for sea shells, learning how to play chess, playing tennis, and swimming in the pool.  We also went to see a new movie called Home and it was the first time Cole was able to watch an entire movie!  We had a great time and wished we had more time.  Definitely worth going back!