Tuesday, May 16, 2017

Reagan receives her Black Belt in Tae Kwon Do!

Another huge accomplishment for Reagan!  When Reagan's neurosurgeon told us two months after brain surgery that she wanted us to have Reagan do three things as she got older it was the furthest from our thoughts at the time.  She told us Reagan should take swim lessons, tae kwon do and play the piano.  I didn't know much about Tae Kwon Do and has no idea what to expect.  When the kids took a trial month in November of 2014 it was a rough start, but the kids quickly started to adjust and began to really like it (the picture is of the first boards they broke as white belts).

After more than two years Reagan tested and received her Black
Belt in Tae Kwon Do from Majest Martial Arts.  She has worked SO hard going to practice at least two to three times each week during those two years.  She was required to learn a poomsae, kicking combination and board breaking for each color belt in addition to memorizing test questions for each belt.  That includes white, yellow, orange, green, purple, blue, super blue, brown, super brown, red, and bo-black.  The black belt test prep included six weeks of Saturday practices for three hours each.


The test itself included performing all eleven poomsae forms back to back followed by three rounds of one on one sparring and three rounds of two on one sparring.  It also included something called "domino" board breaking with four different breaking techniques.  The kids stood in a line and had to go down the line breaking one board one by one then starting back at the beginning with the second breaking technique until all four breaks were completed.

The ceremony was a few weeks after the test and the same night as her First Communion.  The ceremony was celebrated with a family tea.  Each child sat on one side of a small Korean tea table with the parents and siblings on the other.  Each child poured tea for their parents as a sign of respect for the support they gave during the journey.  Each parent was asked to share words of wisdom with their child.  Each child was also asked to read the speech they wrote that talked about what it meant to them to get a black belt. Reagan was very nervous about having to read it but did really well.

Reagan's Speech: "I started Tae Kwon Do when I was 5 years old, over two years ago.  When I started I was very nervous but my mom told me it would be really good for me.  I had brain surgery when I was just 2 months old and after that I have some trouble using my left side.  My surgeon told us Tae Kwon Do would really help build my strength.  When I started here it was really hard to just straighten my left arm the same as my right.  But I have gotten a lot better as I practiced more.  What I didn’t know is that I would really like Tae Kwon Do and that I would meet a lot of fun new friends.  What this black belt shows me is that if I try hard enough, even when something is really hard, I can reach my goals.  What it really means is that I never gave up."

Since the first day Reagan walked into the Do Jang she has read the phrase on the mirror, "My Goal is to Become a Black Belt."  I've always wondered what she would do once she achieved that goal.  I was worried she would want to quit.  On the contrary!  She has started asking about what she needs to do next. She was asked to demonstrate her long stance for a lower belt class Monday and she was beaming from ear to ear when the Master said "now that's how a Black Belt does a long stance!"  So what is next? She wants to work towards her Second Degree Black Belt and will need to learn five more poomsae forms and the associated kicking and breaking techniques.  It is so fun seeing her motivated to go to class.  Time will tell how far she decides to take this journey!



Reagan received her First Communion!

Wow !  Reagan received her First Communion this weekend and was so excited!  Her journey started in first grade with weekly homework and two exams.  She was also required to learn six different prayers (Genuflection method and meaning, Grace Before Meals, Hail Mary, Our Father, Sign of the Cross, and Glory Be).

This year it got a lot harder.  She had classes weekly, in addition to weekly homework in an activity book.  She was required to attend mass and complete an Mass Attendance Worksheet weekly.  This worksheet asked her to list the priest name, date/church attended, color of the vestments and a summary of the gospel and homily.  If she missed more than three she would not be considered for receiving First Communion.  In addition to weekly homework and the weekly mass worksheet she completed two workbooks that were over 60 pages each.  These included drawings, crossword puzzles and other test questions about information she had read/learned in class.  She was also required to memorize seven more prayers that were a little harder than the previous year (Guardian Angel Prayer, Act of Contrition, Act of Faith, Act of Hope, Act of Love, Morning Offering, and Prayer to St. Michael the Archangel).  As part of her learning this year she also received her First Penance (confession).

She had two excellent teachers this year and last who helped her learn throughout the years and guide her on her journey.  She was excited to have several friends from school attend classes with her and join her at her First Communion.  I was very relieved that all the children received communion by mouth at the service.  Unfortunately because she can't turn her left hand over, receiving by hand is not possible. As we entered church Sunday after First Communion on Saturday she asked if she could receive using her hands and my heart sank.  I love her spirit for wanting to do things that are hard, but this is one that I think she's going to have to learn to accept.

We had a wonderful celebration at the house after the service with a few friends and family.  We were so thankful for those who could join us and celebrate such a big day for Reagan.  Given she was Baptized in the hospital a few days before her brain surgery we were not able to have a celebration at the church or at home after.  So this day was especially meaningful to all of us...not only to be at the church, but to know how much God has graced her healing over the last 7 plus years.  We pray that He continues to help her grow and become the woman He intends for her.  We are so proud of her!!